I have known a reasonable sum of men in my life and have been intertwined in different kinds of relationships with them but they have all backfired for one reason or another. Some of them were real, and the majority was only virtual. However, I learnt a lot from each and every one of them. What did I learn?
I learnt to be strong and realistic, I learned to be tough and logical, I learned to be myself and to trust my instinct, and I learned to be first then be with someone else. It may seem selfish what I am saying but I’m just reacting!
Throughout my relationships I have learnt that guys are not the same, that’s true! they are all nice you know but some of them are nice on the outside but evil on the inside, some of them are nice or the outside and naive on the inside, some of them nice on the outside but too suspicious on the inside, some of them are nice on the outside but selfish and possessive on the inside. They are all nice but … each in their own way you see. They all say «I love you ” and they end up leaving you! They all say «I want you ” but they all end up desiring you! They all say ” I miss you honey” when in fact they could have called first to tell it to you!
Ahh men! Sometimes I pity them. I pity those who try to scheme a whole plan just to trap a girl into sleeping with them, why would you do that? Why would you waste your time with a girl who keeps saying «No” when you can have many others without even saying “hello?”
I pity those guys who claim that they are just fine, «I don’t think of her, I can do without her «when all they do is look for the slightest opportunity to lay eyes on her! » if you can’t live without her, do something about it and stop whining! Be a MAN! “
I also pity those guys who are so romantic, who stifle you with love and tenderness, who keep talking about sweet dreams and faithfulness, who place you on a pink cloud and blow you off to the highest sky and then one day tell you ” I can’t marry you , I’m sorry so “
Sometimes I feel like men are helpless, they dream big dreams when they can’t even afford to sleep, they fall into lust when they can afford to fall in love, they build clouds of joy when they can build houses of love… They always do the opposite of what they can do!!
I don’t want you to think that I hate guys or something, not at all! I’m just sharing my views and feeling about them! I do believe in differences and tolerance so I’m not judging, nor criticizing, I’m just analysing!
